Recently, The Kardashians star Kim Kardashian let fans in on a pet peeve she has in relationships. It was definitely a deal breaker for Kim as she says it was the “beginning of the end” of the relationship.
Kim Kardashian is not easily influenced
Although it may come as no surprise, The Kardashians star, Kim Kardashian doesn’t really like people telling her what to do. During The Kardashians Season 5, she’s clear that her work schedule is crazy, but she’s not interested in her sisters’ or mother’s suggestions to slow down. Even though they make suggestions that they think would be good for her, she resists their pleas. Khloe Kardashian shares that when Kim sets her mind to something, she’s determined to follow through with what she wants. For example, during the finale, Kim is determined to get a better score on the Vorath test in the future to beat her sisters. She can’t bear the fact that Khloe’s was better than hers. Kim admits that she thinks people “underestimate” her and she wants to prove them wrong. She talks about how that got in the way in a past relationship.
Kim Kardashian – KUWTK
Kim Kardashian Reveals Red Flag That Ended Past Relationship
During the day The Kardashians final episode on July 25, Kim Kardashian reveals a major red flag from a past relationship. Plus, it was troubling enough for her to be a deal breaker in the relationship. She says, “If someone tells me not to do something that I was planning (to do), I get physical, like, ‘You’re in my way and I’m going to knock down whatever is in my way because you’re not going to tell me to change my schedule.’”
Kanye West and Kim Kardashian – YouTube
“And I think that’s how I would get into relationships. Like when (BEEPING) said to me, ‘You’re working so much. Why don’t you just take a week off?’ And I was like, ‘Get out of here! Take a week off?’ That was the beginning of the end.” Interestingly, the person she was referring to had a beep covering their name. Kim has been in three marriages, Damon Thomas for four years, Kris Humphries for two years, and Kanye West for eight. She has also had relationships with Pete Davidson in recent years and Odell Beckham Jr. since Kanye. However, it’s up to the viewers’ imagination to come up with who might have challenged Kim in that way.
Kim Kardashian and Pete Davidson – Instagram
The figuring out
Additionally, the conversation about Kim Kardashian’s ex came up when she spoke to Kourtney Kardashian Barker about therapy. Kourtney has been very supportive of her having to go through this journey for herself. Previously in The Kardashians Season 5 saw Kim tell Khloe Kardashian that she was seeing a therapist to help her learn how to set boundaries with her four children. However, it opened the door to much deeper issues that she’s learning to face. For example, she understands why she always becomes super calm during the most stressful times of her life. “I used to talk about how calm I am and that’s my superpower, but my therapist felt like it was a traumatic response for me to stay calm in this life where I’m always in this fight-or-flight mode,” Kim tells Khloe. Admittedly, she says, “It was one of those eureka moments.”
Kim Kardashian and Kourtney Kardashian – YouTube
Khloe sees clearly
Discussing Kim Kardashian’s revelation about staying calm, Khloe Kardashian helps her connect the dots on what the event was that likely put her in this traumatic state. Reliving her 2016 mugging, she says, “Imagine having a gun to your head, being tied up, being dragged through a hotel room, and this guy, I remember telling me, ‘Just stay calm and you’re going to survive.’” Kim shares, “And I did that and it helped me in the moment and I think it saved my life. But I think I let it get too calm, and people could take advantage of my calmness or I just turned into a robot with no emotion.”
Khloe thought it was obvious that the robbery was the trigger. She says, “You were never calm as a teenager, in your 20s.” Khloe adds, “You cried at everything. You were rude. You threw tantrums. Everything stopped after you got robbed, because you stayed calm in that situation. You even said, ‘My calmness is what kept me alive.’ That’s when it started. You don’t have to be a fucking detective to figure that out.”
Kim Kardashian and Khloé Kardashian. – KUWTK
Kim Kardashian is working through the baggage
Kim Kardashian’s experience with the Paris mugging has undoubtedly had a lasting impact on her. She recalled during a 2020 interview, “I saw him holding a gun to me.” It was undoubtedly a very scary incident to endure. At the time, she thought, “And I was like, ‘OK, this is it.’ And I kept thinking about Kourtney. I kept thinking, ‘She’s going to come home and I’m dead in the room. She’s going to be traumatized for the rest of her life if she sees me. We share her room.[I’m]on her bed. But I thought that was my fate.” Thankfully, her composure served her well in that situation, and she lived to tell the story. But now she has to work through the fear and find ways to let go of it so it doesn’t continue to affect her daily life.
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What do you think about Kim Kardashian’s red flag in the past relationship? Do you think she was too opinionated or did it serve her well in life? What do you think about the therapy that helped her identify the core issues in her life? Do you have any experiences that are similar to Kim’s past? Are you happy to see that The Kardashians will return for season 6? Leave your comments below.
Bonnie Kaiser-Gambill is a graduate of Oklahoma State University. Her freelance writing focuses primarily on streaming series, reality TV, and celebrity news. In her free time, she enjoys spending time with family and friends, baking, and traveling as much as possible.
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