SINGAPORE: Another unemployed Singaporean in her mid-30s took to social media for advice after finding herself jobless since late June. She noted that job uncertainty and sleepless nights were the reasons why she quit her job after just five months.
She said that although she wanted to take her time and look for a job slowly, her mother constantly pestering her and asking her to think about her future. While she would like to move into communication roles such as writing or proofreading instead of her usual HR/administrative roles, she noted that she’s not sure “if it’s wise to try this at this age.”
“I ended up applying for my usual positions again. I’m also thinking about taking on some part-time jobs, like tutoring, but I’m afraid I can’t commit long-term,” she added.
She sought advice on how to manage work-related stress and anxiety because she found previous attempts at counseling were not as effective as she had hoped.
In response, internet users took to the comments en masse to encourage her and assure her that she is not alone.
Some Singaporeans online suggested hitting the gym to get a better night’s sleep. One user advised exercising until you’re physically tired to improve your sleep, and suggested that a vacation away from home could help ease the pressure.
Sharing his own experience, he added: “I made a career change of 180 degrees in my 30s. Am I successful? I don’t think so. But you never know until you try. Why not start writing a few blogs? Use that to show employers that you have a talent for writing. That can help.”
Another netizen in the same boat suggested that besides exercising, learning new skills, volunteering and getting out of the house helped him stay busy. He said: “Talking to people outside your usual social circle also helps broaden your perspective on the world and prevents you from overthinking.”
Some reminded her not to rush into things, as the job market is pretty tough right now, meaning it will likely be difficult to change careers. One commenter noted, “Sometimes it’s best to commit to what you can get, for now. You don’t have to have your whole life mapped out in this red-hot moment. Work for what you can get, save up emergency funds, and slowly, through a slow search into the future while you’re still working, venture into something new and only quit what you have when you find it.”
Others were reassuring and offered practical advice, stressing the importance of rest, relaxation and engaging in activities that bring joy and satisfaction.
Many repeated, “You are not alone.”“I’m in a similar situation and I’m sure others are too. Keep your chin up, don’t panic and we’ll all get through this,” another commenter added. /TISG
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